Why is it ok for the Scorpio and not the Cancer?
Posted on Mar 31, 2008 under cancer news and reports |My bf is a Scorpio, I'm a Cancer. Things are pretty great between us, however, i notice some things he does are ok for him but not for me. Such as, he has many, many friends, and meets new people occasionally. Although it doesnt sit right with me, i trust him so i work through it. Now, i havent always been sociable like him, but now i've met a couple of new friends through other friends, and he's affirmed that its not okay with this and he doesnt like it. That's it! Are there any Scorpio's out there, or anyone that dates a male Scorpio, that can give me some enlightenment here? Thanks. =)
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
its all a load of buulshit!
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
horiscopes are lies to keep your hope up.
its believing in something stupid
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
I don't think its your birth signs, I think one or both of you are jealous.
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
…this has nothing to do with astrology, hes acting like a controlling bf…ok with him to meet new ppl, but not for you, dump his ass he aint worth it
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
Scorpios are very jealous and possessive and have a hard job trusting people. He is afraid of losing control or losing you.
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
It is usually not going to fair well when you change up the relationship after it starts. When you started dating you accepted that he had an active social life and you didn't. By you deciding to change up the equation you are going to make him suspicious of your intentions. It might not be right, but it is not without merit.
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
It does not matter what sign it is. He may have some insecurities from something as a result from something in his past. it could be a number of things. if it does not sit right with you and you think there is something else going on there then you need to ask questions because most of the time when it does not feel right then it is not right. be careful sweetie.
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
im a scorpio with libran traits as im at the beginning of scorpio. its well known that scorpio males suffer with deep envy and also scorpios are a very dominating starsign your both water signs as well which could be causing some storms pardon the pun. the best way to get through to a scorpio is to stand your ground with him and say its not one rule for him and one rule for him. he might also be worried that if he hasnt got control of the people around you they might try and take you away from him! trust me this is typical scorpio mentality sometimes
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
It doesn't have anything to do with your sign…it usually has to do with the persons self esteem. I am a scorpio and we are known to be jealous, vindictive and quite territorial…but he needs to trust you just like you do him. My husband has friends and some are women…but I trust my husband so it's not a problem for me. I also have friends that are male…and it's not a problem for my husband. Even if you are in a relationship you still are two seperate people…your lives don't have to be consumed by only each other. Personally I think he's just being jealous and immature.
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
US CANCERS r way much better than this nonsense so just dump that dumb ass
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
Although I think horoscope signs might play a role in relationship dynamics… In this I don't think that's what it is. I think you are just in a very unhealthy relationship. I only say this because my roommate in college was in the same boat as you are but reverse horoscope signs. she made every excuse under the sun to say that everything is fine but the truth is that is emotional abuse.
Emotional abuse is a cycle that gets you stuck in in unless you realize this and force your self out. Much like other forms of abuse. I don't think your situation is quite as bad ad my roommates was, but I do think you either need to step up to the plate and demand equal treatment or find a new man.
I wish you all the best
March 31st, 2008 at 7:02 am
this has nothing to do with horoscopes.. why would you think it does?
just tel him what you have told us.. say why is it ok for you to meet new people and not me ? then see what he says .